hunter849 asked: 1. Her then steady BF
2. Her “friend with benefits” whom she saw twice a month
3. A man she refers to as her “f*ckbuddy” whom she saw once a month
4. Her friend with benefits roommate
5. THREE co-workers
6.One night stand with a man she met at a bar
7. One night stand in Vegas
8. Her sister’s husband
9. Got drunk and spent the night at a friend’s house and slept with him then blamed it “on the alcohol” and said she wasn’t even “attracted to him”.
10. An 8 month sexual relationship with a man.
11. A 3 month sexual relationship with another man.
12. A 2 month sexual relationship with yet another man.
13. One night stand with a man she met on Myspace.
14. A man she met at a house party.
^^^ These are the SIXTEEN men she slept with in the few months before she and I became involved.
During any given month, she was regularly having sex with at least 4 men and sometimes, up to as many as 9 men.
She claims to be “a very sexual person.” BUT I think that her behavior stems from:
1. Her parents’ neglect.
2. Her parents’ were both drug addicts who had her as teenagers and later, both committed suicide while on drugs.
3. One of her mom’s many BFs MAY have molested her.
My GF is an alcoholic and is currently in court-mandated AA classes. Will she EVER change? She doesn’t see anything wrong with her lifestyle.
She wants me to get her pregnant so that she can have a “family to always love” b/c she hates her own family.
Sex for her with random men is not a big deal.
When I met her, she carried condoms in her purse and knew the prices of 3 motel rooms in town.
Should I stay with her and hope she changes and get her pregnant?? But I fear that she will always cheat on me like she cheated on her ex-BF with those OTHER 15 MEN.
^^^ This all happened over a span of a few months. None of these men knew about each other. If she’s been with 16 men in less than 6 months -how many must she have slept with over the past 17 years since losing her virginity?
Brian