GF slept with 16 men in a month. Get her pregnant and pay child support?
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hunter849 asked:
She has severe mental, sexual, and alcohol issues.
She has severe mental, sexual, and alcohol issues.
She has low self esteem.
She lies and uses me for $.
But, I DEEPLY CARE about her and want her to change.
She slept with 16 men in one month and has 4-5 men she sleeps with on a regular basis -one of these 4-5 of her regular lovers is her sister’s husband.
She says she will change once we have a baby but I don’t trust her -she knows the room prices of every motel in town (SERIOUSLY)!
Should I take a chance on this girl? I just feel she deserves better than all those men who just give her alcohol and sleep with her (she has a drinking problem -went to see her twice in the morning, both times, she was passed out on Crown Royal).
Or am I just looking at a lot of heartache and child support in the future?
Aaron
July 27th, 2009 at 10:26 pm
Leonard
RUN!!!!!!
July 30th, 2009 at 6:45 pm
Duane
RUN FAR FAR AWAY AND DONT LOOK BACK!!!!!!!!!!
August 2nd, 2009 at 5:30 pm
Constance
let her go seriously she cant change until she really wants too and would you wanna really have a baby with a woman who you will more than likely doubt your the father and until something better comes along tell you to take a hike and your left paying child support seriously you know the answer in your heart if you didnt know you wouldnt have posted this on here just listen to it and run..
August 4th, 2009 at 2:24 am
Greg
yer dude don’t do it… she probablyy only wants the child for the pension ($$$).u dont want to bring a kid into a life like that,…. think bout the kid.
August 4th, 2009 at 5:31 pm
Gladys
You can care deeply for someone, but at a distance. You can’t make her change…she will do it only if she wants it. You said it yourself….”I don’t trust her”. That’s your answer right there. As for her being pregnant…I would suggest that you wait until the child is born and then have a paternity test done…with as many men as you say she is sleeping with, the child may not be yours. Best of luck to you.
August 5th, 2009 at 1:14 am
Rodney
Help her, get her professional help for ALL of her problems. A baby is not the solution either, so don’t just get her pregnant.
August 7th, 2009 at 7:45 pm
Micheal
If she hasn’t stopped she’s not going to. I use to be like that when I was single cuz I was just having fun but then I met my man and stopped.
August 11th, 2009 at 3:32 am
Claude
She will not change unless she wants to change. People with those kinds of problems you listed will not get better on their own, they need professional help. And dont think you can SAVE her. Because she needs intensive treatment, I would say inpatient treatment where she can detox, get help for her depression and low-self esteem issues and why she thinks she has to use sex as a way of being loved. She lies for the attention and uses the money as a way of thinking you need to help her. As for her sleeping with that many men, she probably has an STD or 2, and if not may already be pregnant and she will not know who the father is unless she does a paternity test and then all the skeletons will fall out of her closet. The men she is sleeping with are using her also because she is available and there.
Do you really want to start a family with someone who is already like this and says they will change once something happens. They won’t. Its better that you now cut your losses and move on to someone who is worthy of your time and will treat you well.
August 12th, 2009 at 8:29 pm
Melissa
your either looking at alot of child suport or raising the kid on your own, if you had a baby with her would ever think its not yours since she is doing so many other men in her life.
my opion is not to bring a child into it, it want be fair on the baby so watch its mum doing what she is doing and then the child might end up being just like her when it gets older as thats all it will no
August 14th, 2009 at 11:40 pm
Manuel
honestly do you think it’s your child?
If it is your baby let her have it then take her to court and get the kid off of her, If she even gets through it with all the drinking ect.
August 17th, 2009 at 1:04 pm
Allan
Forget that b*tch, she has way too many issues.There are plenty of fish in the sea. I say RUN, as far as you can, as fast as you can, AND NEVER LOOK BACK!!!
August 19th, 2009 at 11:43 am
Julio
Do you have a death wish or something? If not then you are just plain crazy. I’m amazed that you even asked such a question. Go ahead, sleep with her and contract all the diseases she must have from all her lovers!
August 19th, 2009 at 8:04 pm
Marcus
There is no way this question is serious but I’ll answer anyway. This type of person has serious problems and does not need a child at this point in her life, you would only be harming an innocent baby by bringing it into this kind of environment.